The moment you start viewing a situation as someone else’s fault, and (this is key) demand that others change to make you happy — and you stick around demanding and demanding and demanding change, without changing your own behavior — then you’ve taken the first step toward being an abuser. You’re standing fixed while expecting others to bend to you.
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